cintique pro multiple monitor issue using zbrush

So i don't know why but constantly i am finding that my Cintiq pro will end up stuck on one of my other monitors (i use 2 externals connected via display port).  My Cintiq is connected in the 3rd display port and usb. I do not use usb c so its using usb 3 to A instead because i lack spare usb c ports.

What's happening is that the display will get stuck with toggle on both external monitors and refuses to go back to the Cintiqu pro with the pen. The pen still behaves like a mouse as i can move it around on the other 2 monitors. I have tried restarting the driver and sometimes this works but it is also laggy when it returns to the Cintiq.  Alt click for zooming/panning in Zbrush is often not responsive (fine with mouse), i would find it odd to be a memory issue as i have 64gb of ram on my pc. I have a Ryzen 9 5950x and an rtx rog strix 3090 card.

Restarting zbrush sometimes helps to combat the pen lag but not always and even sometimes i have to restart my pc (very inconvenient as i dont want to be behind on work). I've barely had this tablet a month and for something so expensive, i would have expected better software support? 

Restarting the software isnt so bad but what is the most frustrating thing is that display toggle seems buggy , there's no reason why it shouldn't easily switch between all 3 displays, why would it suddenly forget the cintiq randomly? its not disconnected from the pc (i use windows 10 still currently as I'm unsure if 11 will be worse).

In my previous tablets all i ever had to do was restart the wacom driver and it would be fine. If this is a windows issue please point me in the right direction.

Is there a way to disable display toggle completely? and only have the cintiqu as its standalone with the pen? i dont really need the pen to be used on my other 2 monitors at all, i'm used to just grabbing my mouse for that. 

Maybe im missing something in the wacom software settings? 

Thanks